When a man has a crush on a lady & intends to date her but discovers she's married or in a serious relationship, his interest to keep her drastically drops.

When a man has a crush on a lady & intends to date her but discovers she's married or in a serious relationship, his interest to keep her drastically drops. 

But when a woman discovers that her crush is married or in a serious relationship, her interest in him heightens. She wants to keep him for herself.

This summarises the sexual behaviour of both gender.

Men are territorial. They want women that are not owned by other men. Even if he sticks around after he finds out that she's taken, he's only sticking around to smash her, not to wrestle her out of the other guy's hand. No, he doesn't covet her that way.

This is why most people have the misconception that women in relationship are better at cheating. No, they're are not. It's just that the men they cheat with never desire to keep them. So they respect the boundary of her relationship, while smashing her in the corner.

Women on the otherhand don't care about respecting boundaries. If she likes a guy who's engaged to be married or even married, her interest skyrockets. She seeks to keep the man for herself.

So she contemplates wrestling the guy from the other woman (Women supporting women indeed!).

That's why you often hear stories of sidechicks telling the husbands to divorce the wife & marry them. There's little to zero respect for boundaries.

To summarise: 

• Men are territorial. He doesn't wish to acquire a woman owned by another man. Women are not. In fact she wants to wrestle the guy out of the other woman's hands.

• Men respect boundaries & that's why women "don't cheat" until DNA proves otherwise. Women never respect boundaries. So they often implicate the cheating man.

• Women sleeps with the men they love. Thus, desire to own them for themselves. Men on the otherhand don't necessarily love or want to own the women they sleep with 🙈.